Latest articles by Lucy Wigley
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BBC Three's Such Brave Girls shows us how the mistakes our mothers make will continue to be passed down to our daughters - it's uncomfortable viewing, but our TV critic loved it
Such Brave Girls is a comedy brilliantly balancing grotesque humour with intergenerational trauma, while pointing out why women's mental health makes us uncomfortable.
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Nearly half a million mothers report being 'legally gagged' from talking about workplace discrimination and bullying - here's how you can help
Mothers campaign against being silenced by non-disclosure agreements in the UK, protecting employers against workplace bullying and harassment.
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Psychologist warns of the one ‘big message’ you send your child if you film them having a meltdown
If you ever film your child when they're having a meltdown, a psychologist warns of the big message this sends them that could strain your relationship.
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Traumatic birth inquiry finds the number of negative experiences 'are simply not good enough,' and my own poor maternity care still leaves me angry
An inquiry into traumatic birth experiences has found the 30,000 reported negative experiences per year to be unacceptable - I'm still angry about my own years later.
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The 6 benefits of screentime (no, really) and why 'intentional' use might be the way forward, by a family therapist
Not all screen time is 'bad' - we share how to prioritise quality, learning, and social connection
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Parents 'don’t always need to validate their kids’ feelings' - expert argues 'obsession' with validation results in ‘less emotional regulation’, not more
A parenting expert has revealed that we don't always need to validate our kids' feelings, and the 'obsession' to do so can actually fuel dysregulation.
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Myths of only children debunked as study reveals no reliable scientific evidence that being an only child affects ‘personality, behaviour, or well-being’
Researchers looking into 'only child syndrome', have set about debunking myths about the stereotypical traits of only children, and the results are very interesting.
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Channel 4 drama The Gathering explores 'toxic teenagers and their even more toxic parents' in an online world dominated by social media
New Channel 4 drama explores the challenges of impossible standards set by social media, and how parents themselves become toxic in their need to protect their kids.
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Has your teen searched for the leaked exam papers online? Amount of students caught 'cheating' has doubled, here's everything you need to know - including consequences
In light of the exam paper leak, Ofqual announce the consequences for those found searching for them. This comes as the number of students found cheating doubles in six years.
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13 traits experienced by adults who were lonely children, according to a psychologist (#4 definitely isn’t a bad thing)
Psychologists have identified 13 traits experienced by adults who were lonely as children. But they can all be turned into positives, and lonely kids can make resilient adults.
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Do you and your partner disagree on parenting styles? Try these 8 tips from a psychotherapist that model respect and compromise despite your differences
You and your partner might disagree on parenting styles, and that's OK. Try these eight psychotherapist-backed tips that help you model respect and compromise anyway.
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Concerned about screen time? This one simple trick offers more ‘control’ and eases fears of device ‘addiction,’ according to a psychologist
If you're concerned about the potential negative effects of screen time on your kids, a psychologist has outlined one simple change you can make - and it's genius.
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Why 'stranger danger' is outdated at best and dangerous at worst (and the new phrase your child needs to understand to stay safe)
Child psychologists urge parents not to teach kids the 'outdated' concept of Stranger Danger, offering an alternative phrase to keep them safe instead.
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Mum divides the internet suggesting that ‘voluntarily involved grandparents’ are a ‘bigger flex’ than having well behaved children
A TikTok mother has shared gushing love for the voluntarily involved grandparents of her kids, wanting their involvement more than she wants well behaved children.
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Do you get your kids’ names mixed up? Psychologist reveals why your brain makes this ‘common glitch’ and it’s not the reason you think
Are you always going through the names of all your kids before you land on the right one? Don't worry, you aren't alone - there's an interesting scientific reason you do it.
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Parenting expert shares the one ‘emotional habit’ that can affect kids’ ‘security’ and ‘trust in themselves’ and what parents can say and do instead to break the cycle
A parenting expert shares an emotional habit that can inadvertently affect their child's behaviour. There are ways around it, and here's what to do to break the cycle.
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Giving teens ‘space and opportunity’ to be independent helps them thrive according to an educator - here’s 3 top tips to get started
Teenagers need to be given space and opportunity to thrive - a sense of agency will set them up for success in later life, according to an educator.
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"My biggest rule..." Psychologist Dr Becky reveals to Oprah top screen time rules she uses for her own kids and admits getting the balance right is a 'struggle' - and we totally relate to #3
Psychologist Dr Becky chats top screen time rules for her own children, and how even she struggles to get the right balance. Her third rule is relatable to parents everywhere.
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What most parents don't know about 'emotional regulation', from a brain doctor (and understanding it may really help)
A neuroscientist has explained the process of emotional regulation in 7 steps, and understanding it could be beneficial to parents.
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Psychologist shares the real reason parents - especially celebrity mums and dads - choose unique baby names and it kind of makes sense
Unique baby names are on the rise, and a psychologist has shared the surprisingly relatable reason why many choose such unusual monikers.
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Teachers told to look out for ‘sextortion’ victims in schools as cases rise and boys are ‘most vulnerable’ - here’s everything you need to know
Sextortion cases have doubled, leading to teachers being issued guidance to spotting the signs - teenage boys are the biggest demographic being targeted.
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Worried your child might be a bully? Psychotherapist shares 8 powerful ways to change this dynamic, and #4 might take some courage (but is so worth it)
If you're worried your child might be a bully, don't panic - a psychotherapist has shared how to help them with compassion and self-reflection.
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Parental loneliness is soaring according to research, here are 5 expert tips on how to deal with it (#3 is more important than you think)
Parents appear to be feeling more lonely than ever, with research suggesting two thirds feel isolated and crave attention outside of their homes.
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Parents are being ‘fined, prosecuted even imprisoned' - Fines for unauthorised school absences are going up and here's what an education advocate needs you to know
An education advocate shares the facts and her own thoughts, on the treatment of parents whose children take unauthorised absence from school - this is what caregivers need to know.
